faith / Grief / Thanksgiving / Widowhood

Thankful, Grateful, Grieving

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Grief and gratitude can coexist. You can be truly thankful and also deeply saddened by the empty chair at your table. Leave space for your memories today. Then, through your […]

Grief / Music / poetry / Trauma / Widowhood

Your Song Isn’t Over Yet

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I’m still wearing my pause necklace. She’s a little rough with wear. In fact, I stopped wearing her for a minute because she’s all pitted and the “gold” is rubbed […]

Grief

Thankful for Grief

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I am thankful for grief. Hear me out… Grief is love. 🥀 Not, “I once loved,” but rather, “I love still.” I am privileged to have had a love that […]

faith / Grief / Parenting / Widowhood

Love Bends Down

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She was exhausted. She was out of her comfort zone. She’d had enough. So, he just sat with her. For as long as it took.

Because love bends down.

Like a good earthly father sits by his struggling child—tenderly, lovingly, patiently—so our good heavenly Father stoops down to us in our need. For as long as it takes.

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child loss / faith / Grief / Trauma / Widowhood

When You Want to Ask Why

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When we realized Jeremy wasn’t going to make it, I looked at my dad and asked, “Why does this keep happening to me?” When bad things happen, often our first […]

child loss / faith / Grief / Prolonged Grief Disorder / Trauma / Widowhood

Complicated Grief: When You Get Stuck

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Grief is inevitable. No one escapes it. If you love anything or anyone, you will eventually grieve. Remember when your baby had separation anxiety? She was grieving what she perceived […]

faith / Grief / seasons / Thanksgiving / Widowhood

Grief and Gratitude

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Thanksgiving has always been a month-long holiday in the Smith home. When our boys were little, our family began an exercise in thanks-living, which became a yearly tradition for us. […]