Book / child loss / faith / Grief / Grief Support / Trauma / Widowhood

When We Can’t Understand

Posted on:

In times when it feels like we’ve been forgotten—forsaken even—we must trust what we know to be true. He is with me.He is for me.He loves me.He is good. Thoughts […]

Book / child loss / faith / Grief / Grief Support / Trauma / Widowhood

God’s Plan for Suffering

Posted on:

My valley-walk was not wasted, for ‘twas there I met the Shepherd. “Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil for […]

Book / child loss / faith / Grief / Grief Support / Trauma / Widowhood

Just Be Quiet

Posted on:

Walking with others through the valley of suffering is a sacred privilege. May we learn to steward it well. More thoughts from the book of Job(Job 14-16)

Bible Study / Book / child loss / Devotional / faith / Grief / Trauma / Widowhood

God in our Suffering

Posted on:

One who has never suffered greatly, might be tempted to judge those who aren’t “suffering well.” Which is why I love the book of Job.Raw. Real. Relatable. Righteous.Restored. Thoughts on […]

child loss / Christmas / devotional / faith / Grief / hope / seasons / Widowhood

No Peace on Earth this Christmas

Posted on:

Oh, Christmas… Once a fertile garden of celebration of the past and hope for the future, she is now a barren wasteland of lost yesterdays and missed tomorrows. Tragedy touches […]

child loss / Christmas / devotional / faith / Grief / seasons / Widowhood

A Christmas Grief

Posted on:

We don’t like to talk about grief at Christmas, but for so many, this is their reality. Perhaps someone you know and love has suffered great loss this year and, […]

child loss / Christmas / devotional / faith / Grief / Widowhood

God With Us In Our Grief

Posted on:

I wrote this on Christmas Day, 2021—ten weeks after Jeremy graduated to Glory. I believed it then, and I know it to be true now, more than ever. He is […]

Christmas / faith / Grief / Widowhood

Skipping Christmas

Posted on:

Wanna skip Christmas this year? I hear you. And I get it. But perhaps there’s another way. Here are some thoughts on celebrating Christmas, even when our Christmas isn’t, at […]

Book / child loss / Devotional / Grief / Grief Support / Poetry / Prolonged Grief Disorder / Resources / Trauma / Widowhood

Things your grieving friends wish you knew but will never tell you…

Posted on:

“Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.” Maya Angelou When someone you love suffers a profound loss, it can be hard […]

Grief / Resources / Widowhood

New Book!!!

Posted on:

I’ve been keeping a secret… Get it here: https://amzn.to/49qChRO

Grief / Music / poetry / Trauma / Widowhood

Your Song Isn’t Over Yet

Posted on:

I’m still wearing my pause necklace. She’s a little rough with wear. In fact, I stopped wearing her for a minute because she’s all pitted and the “gold” is rubbed […]

faith / Grief / Parenting / Widowhood

Love Bends Down

Posted on:

She was exhausted. She was out of her comfort zone. She’d had enough. So, he just sat with her. For as long as it took.

Because love bends down.

Like a good earthly father sits by his struggling child—tenderly, lovingly, patiently—so our good heavenly Father stoops down to us in our need. For as long as it takes.

(Read more)