faith / Grief / hope / Post-Traumatic Growth / Waiting / Widowhood

Undone to Become: Butterflies and Sanctification

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One of the most fascinating occurrences in all of God’s creation happens inside a tiny bean-shaped pod. A fuzzy “worm” that has, thus far, spent her life crawling slowly on […]

Grief Support

Fatherless Day: When Father’s Day Hurts

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Glass half full or glass half empty—in the end, it doesn’t matter. You drink it up, because that’s all there is. Sweetness and bitterness in the same cup. Gratitude and […]

Grief Support

Putting On Your Mask: Self Care in Grief

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“Secure your own mask first.” You’re enjoying a nice, smooth ride when, suddenly, you are jolted awake by violent shaking and terrified cries. (Whether the screams are yours or someone […]

Grief / Grief Support / Solo Parenting / Widowhood

Sunrise, Sunset: Time Marches On

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She walked herself down the aisle. Alone. Nobody held it together, except her. Bittersweet tears mixed with drops of rain as I watched our beautiful warrior princess boldly step into […]

child loss / faith / Grief / Grief Support / Post-Traumatic Growth / Widowhood

Grief: Gotta Go Through It

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One of my earliest memories is going on a “bear hunt” with my Kindergarten teacher. We’d all march in place as we chanted: Going on a bear hunt.I’m not scared.Gonna […]

faith / Grief / Grief Support / Widowhood

Even If He Doesn’t

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In 2021, my theme for our Student Ministry was “That’s Messed Up.” We spent the year learning about the deeply flawed people in the Bible and the God who redeemed […]

Grief Support

Feeling Cheated by Death: Wedding Anniversary Thoughts

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Sunday is my wedding anniversary. We should be celebrating 29 years as Mr. and Mrs. Smith. We were supposed to grow old together. We were just getting started. Soon, my […]

devotional / Easter / faith / Grief / Grief Support / Holidays / Resurrection

Palm Sunday and My Fickle Heart

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Today, my daughter and I got to celebrate Palm Sunday with a beautiful congregation in Costa Rica. It was almost transcendent to stand in that space, worshiping one Savior in […]

Grief Support

When Grief is Loud

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When you’re faced with an unwanted new life—devastated by loss—and you become overwhelmed by sorrow, Seek the face of the Savior. He knows the agony of separation and the anguish […]

Devotional / faith / Grief / Grief Support

You Can Do Hard Things

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Sometimes, God requires us to do hard things. Really. hard. things. I don’t know about you, but I have to admit that when He called me to some of these […]

Bible Study / Devotional / Grief Support

But God Saw…

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For many years, she was confined to widow garb, waiting for her father-in-law to do the right thing. Yet, in all those years, God did not forget about her. For […]